Moving with children – how to help kids settle in
Moving with children is easier when you prepare them for the change in advance, involve them in the process, and keep everyday routines as unchanged as possible. For a child, a move is a big change, so the most important things are open conversation and giving support. With these tips you'll help your child settle into a new home with less stress.
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Prepare children for the move before moving day
Good adjustment starts before the move. Involve children in the preparations like this:
Talk about the move well in advance. Explain why you're moving and what to expect in the new home. Let the children ask questions and answer honestly. You can also visit the new neighbourhood together beforehand.
Involve children in decisions. Let them choose, for example, the colours of their own room or décor elements, so they feel included.
Pack together. Let children pack their own things into their own boxes. It gives them a sense of control and involvement in the move.
Help children settle into the new home
After the move, familiar things and routines help a child feel at home:
Create familiar elements. Hang old photos or arrange rooms the same way as in your previous home, so the surroundings feel safe.
Get to know the neighbourhood. Visit local playgrounds and family events so the children make new friends.
Keep routines the same. The same bedtime, mealtime rhythm and daily activities steady a child's feelings in a new environment.
Allow time to adjust. Be patient and remind them that early discomfort is normal and eases over time.
Frequently asked questions about moving with children
How do I prepare children for a move?
Talk about the move well in advance, explain why you're moving and let the children ask questions. Involve them in the preparations, for example by letting them pack their own things and choose the décor for their own room.
How do I help a child settle into a new home?
Create familiar elements in the new home, such as old photos, and keep everyday routines unchanged. Get to know the neighbourhood together and give the child time to get used to the new surroundings.
How do I talk to my child about the move?
Tell them about the move honestly and in an age-appropriate way: why you're moving and what will happen in the new home. Let the child ask questions and answer them, so the change feels safe.